Originally Posted By: ms ladybug

Then he tells me... "I've told you before, if you need help with anything in the house, just tell me and I'll do it."
HA!! He's NEVER volunteered to do housework...EVER.


Do you see that there is a difference between what he said, and what you said?

He said,
"Ask me for help, and I'll help you".

You said, "He's never decided to help spontaneously".

What you did NOT say, was
"I've asked him to help before, [in [...this...] specific way], and he refused to".


Last edited by Dom R; 05/08/08 05:39 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle