The Longest Journey

[Jen_Jam]

Yay SD!!! I feel that in a piecing situation, it takes some kind of "test" for the LBS to start to feel more comfortable, or even a series of mini ones. By "test" I don't mean of course starting arguments or engineering situations to test your H or W, but things that arise naturally. It's looking out for the positives, celebrating those, and the more of them you celebrate the easier it is to ignore any negatives. During our crises practically EVERYTHING was negative, it's easy to get into the mindset that it will always be that way.

Soon you'll get to a point where it all seemed like a faraway nightmare. I am there now. I certainly won't forget what happened, but my H is most def forgiven. We discussed this and I told him I looked on it that he had been taken over by an alien during that time. He liked that analogy, it helped when I said to him that during our bad times it wasn't the real him who was acting/speaking. That helped him forgive himself and move on.

Take it easy

PS does this mean no hot cabana boys now?