Karen, You never know what is going through a WAS's head, but try not to assume too much whether it is good or bad.
Do keep in mind that you are wise to keep your eyes open that he may be trying to be nice so that you will take it easy on him in the settlement. Just remember if it does come down to the divorce don't let him trick or bully you into anything less than your fair share. I'm not saying you have to take him to the cleaners, but just remember marriage is a partnership and you deserve at least half of what the "partners" accumulated during all of those years. I'm not trying to burst your bubble or be cynical, but we do have to keep our eyes open...
Remember you are a fantastic person and you will be just fine no matter what. Just keep being strong and let him continue to see what a "catch" he will be letting get away.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
