"I know the first EA is still at least somewhat going on"

you mean that the first EA was going on the last time right? It's not still really going on now? I think I got confused.


Anyways, I agree to not let your fears hold you back to having a great time. IMHO I bet H was already feeling stuck in the M, and then watching someone else get M knowing that it's suppose to be forever... again making him feel even more stuck than he was...that it was just a last straw kinda thing.

I bet this time round is different though. The way your H is acting towards you is different. Don't let your anxiety affect your mood and therefore you self-prophesy another problem. This could be a really great time together, so remember to act AS IF!

I understand the part about posting on newcomers and remembering. There was a time for a while where I just couldn't do it anymore. But right now, I have no problems whatsoever. It really does just take time, time to heal and time to forget. It's almost like a faded dream for me now. well, okay a faded nightmare. ;\)

gdnight

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."