hate to be the devil’s advocate here but from what I’ve seen you are probably right and your son will forever be
Hey All! Ya know you are right and its ironic as B and I were talking about this the other day, his B who is dying has a very difficult R with one of his sons, who has never totally forgiven his dad for leaving, although he didnt leave for an OW, it was bascially because of the turmoil with him and his ex, and the drinking they both had a prob with. Even now as he is dying the oldest S, came to visit, stayed less then 24 hrs , said his goodbyes and left, while the younger S, seems to have forgiven his dad and is there staying w/ him, taking care of him.
I suppose it all depends on personalities and how much you want the R w/ the parent.
I think S will also forgive his dad for not calling, prolly not the end of the world, but i do believe my ex is digging his own grave when it comes to doing permanent damage to their R.
Thanks for stopping by All I've been bad at visiting threads this week, lots going on. I need to spend some time and catch up
Have a great Thurs!!
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