Hi B,

I read this today and was thinking of you.

2 Timothy 2:23
"Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not quarrel: instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will."

I take from that for you to continue to not let H's actions/words to harm you, and to let those things go because they are stupid because of his lack of truth, and that as you continue to calmly show him what is right (by being the friend that you are and when he does things inappropriate for you, you share your feelings in a calm way) you let God do the rest of the work to work on his heart and pray for him that he will come to his senses, because he truly is in a trap, and we must pray for him to see his way out, and to realize this trap that he is in.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."