I appreciate your thoughts again, Mark. The problem is that I told this last OM that I was separated (fact) and headed for divorce (fact at the time). As we went along, after the first 3 months or so, I got the house appraised and got ready for divorce. I had told him this. Then, I stopped doing anything. He was waiting for me to divorce because I said that is what I was going to do at the beginning of the relationship. If I had known that I wasn't going to divorce, I would have told him that and he would have stopped pursuing me and I would have broken up with him. It got to just recently that I decided I didn't want to divorce. So, I feel bad at the fact that I wasted his time and I hurt him in the process. Honestly, at this point, he is probably more furious than hurt. Yes, he knew I wasn't divorced yet, and coming from a divorce himself, he should have known better. But, due to my circumstances, can you see why I feel awful? I feel like I convinced him of something that didn't happen.
