hurtmom, I totally hear you and can relate. I am always getting ticked off about something H does (like not coming home until 2am several nights in a row) and make plans to do this or that, but then I cool off and H says something nice and I forgive and head back down the cheeseless tunnel. It sounds like you and I are mice walking the tunnel together! I am just not emotionally ready to say "I'm done" and actually go through with it. I should be there, but needlesstosay...I'm not.

Yeah the whole vacation thing would make me think that he was with OW. My H says there isn't another OW also. That he is just hanging out with some guys until 2am. Whatever. I was not born yesterday. Could you get the phone number of the hotel he will be staying in case of an emergency with your daughter?

Try your best to do some fun things while he is gone...and just keep hanging in there.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08