for better,for worse,for (what)ever

[seekpeaceofmind]

I do feel good that I was able to respond calmly and neutrally. I wasn't weepy or angry, just matter of fact. He's used to me snapping his head off, so improvement. . .

I don't know if we can will it to happen. We can make it look like we're letting go by doing the various DB things, but I think the feeling must happen in its own time. I'm not there yet either, but we will get there!

What I really want for myself is to embrace the change in my life, but it just has too many negative connotations for that to work for me. You're right that the feelings shift in their own time, but I want to help them along. . . . I guess I feel like I've been in the same place too long, and this isn't even a race that I want to win!