Seek, I completely relate to the things you're saying. My H still lives at home, but is hellbent on S. Anytime he brings it up, talks about going to a mediator or anything, I freeze. I want to let go, but it is sloow going. I don't know if we can will it to happen. We can make it look like we're letting go by doing the various DB things, but I think the feeling must happen in its own time. I'm not there yet either, but we will get there!
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08
