Oh, Karen. It's too difficult to project what someone else is thinking. You're going to drive yourself crazy if you try. Of course, it's a possibility that your H is just being nice because he wants to get on with the D and figures that is the path of least resistance, BUT, he could also be nice just for the sake of being nice. Don't think about it until the time comes, sweetie.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence