If the "ex" Wants to Have "The Talk"

[No_More_Dodo]

I don't think we can deal too much with theoreticals here... but I will say that the last time my x wanted to talk (it was get together for tea, an email)I said I don't think so, this is too emotional still for me, if there is something on your mind let me know what it is. Turns out he had a baby on the way with the ow and we weren't even divorced and his family was telling him he had to tell me. THAT I didn't want to know in person. Whatever else he might have said at that point did not matter.

Does this help??

By the way, I read your sitch, just the first post, you like to get married after one long talk huh? Just an observation. Hope I did not misread. If so sorry. Wonder

Wonder,

I am glad things worked out in your sitch the way they did. I could not have imagined him telling you in person.

I had known my exW for a few years before our long talk. There was never a doubt I wanted to be with her. When the opportunity presented itself, I had to seize it. In the past, I would have characterized it as a huge mistake... I would not now... It was what it was... I followed my heart... It ended the way it did..... Life happily goes on now...

My new W and I had really been seeking the Lord's will in our R. She actually backed away at one point because her feelings were so strong for me. I know it sounds funny because we both knew we wanted to be married after our one long talk in person. It is not like it was a purely physical attraction.... It was so much more.... I actually felt God leading me to her all along...

Take Care,

NMD