I am not good at this. I called Susan and left her a detailed message, I know that i should keep shut. I told her, listen, if you and javier had your lived together, and my kids had to stay there, I would be fine with it, as long as your my kids had their own space. I was calm cool and collected, I even told her i was happy, that our children got along. I said i love that your children are so caring towards my children. I said thank you for being kind to them too. I just will not have my children sleeping on the floor.
You handled this respectfully with kindness and grace. Why didn't your X get his a$$ on the floor with his son? Your children should have slept in a bed as a guest in someone's house. His actions were wrong on so many levels.
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Javier sent me a message, saying that Karma is right around the corner for me.
Karma is the cycle of cause and effect. For being a good mom and keeping the best interest of your children your #1 priority, you will be blessed. So on this point, I do agree with him, although he states this with negativity. His karma is right around the corner as well and I am pretty sure he will not be rewarded.
You are wise and strong. Your intentions are good. Take a deep breath and this too shall pass. You did good.
