I would have to agree, Karen, that most of us are "DESPERATE" to save the marriage when first starting the DB process. We still want to save our marriages, but desperation isn't part of the equation any longer.
You are truly a role model for so many of us. =)
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence