No, I have not started my own thread as of yet. To be honest, I am still trying to completely wrap my mind around all that has happened. He complained about my temper--I was a yell first, ask questions after kind of person, especially when it came to issues with the kids--but I have really worked on that. As a matter of fact, to the point that when he is here and the kids start acting up and push the limits, he actually jumps in about them being disrespectful.
Honestly, I do not know what he sees in her. I have seen pictures--she is 10 years older than I am, almost 15 years older than my H. She also lives in another state--he started his affair while we were separated due to military commitments. Unfortunately, he has continued it through email and over the cell phone. I will start a thread later tonight or tomorrow that details all of what has happened, in what was a relatively short time frame.
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7