A, There's no telling what's going on w/him right now. I suspect he wasn't too happy to be installing a toilet for his mother. He sounded more aggravated than angry. When they are short like your h was w/you, the less contact you have w/him the better. He's in his stew pot and he needs to come to a full boil, w/out you being around to season him up.
I hope your daughter is feeling better. Remember, you can't analyze every move, word or blink he makes. Just leave him be for a while.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
