ALL6785,

I guess I see these possibilities:

Rationalization - ex wants to revisit all the "valid" reasons for demise of M

Ego Boost - ex just wants to know you still have an interest

Fishing Expedition - ex wants to see how you feel before sharing his/her feelings

Remorseful - ex realizes what he/she has done and wants to apologize

Reconciliation - ex wants to pickup R

Would you talk to your ex in any of these scenarios?

NMD


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