Question is, did it work the same for him? Or send him running scared?
Well H mentioned as he was leaving last night he "might" stop in tonight when he got off work. He texted me druing lunch to tell me Dora was just at his store and ask when she was coming to our town.
Then he started texting later in the afternoon, I think mostly to work in that he would not be coming over after work. Either that or he wanted some sympathy, he is feeling sick, upset stomach has the chills. Told him ok, hope he feels better. Then I guess he sent some more texts that didn;t make it because he called to see why I had stopped responding. He offered to take D to daycare Fri morning so she could sleep in. I am off so there is no need so he said ok maybe I'll just come over to visit before work then. (when they came in an hour later stuck somewhere in cyberspace after the first 2 recd no response the 3rd was asking if I was out playing catch, and then came the phone call)
I opened D's school bag and there is a note in there from her teacher saying she was having trouble focusing. I am certain she sent this only because I sent a letter telling her H and moved out and I wanted to be advised of any changes that she noticed in D. I never mentioned to H I did this.
So I just I flipped him a text to tell him about this letter.
H - I wonder what is wrong (hmmmm, I wonder)
Me - Don't know for certain
H - It is only JK, it is probably just because she has friends
Me - maybe that is what it is
H - I am not worried about her she is a smart cookie, I will talk to her after gym tomorrow.
Me - r u going?
H - I will come by after work and we can drive together.
As I mentioned before D has 35 gym lessons a year. This is her second year. This will be H's 5th time going, 3 have been in the last 3 weeks. This is the first time we will be driving together the last 2 times he met us there.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009