Hey, GF I just found your new thread here! It's funny b/c I had read about how tough it can be after separation when you start piecing, but I always thought why would that be when you finally get what you've wanted? But I can see from reading your thread that I would have a lot of the same problems: my H is also very blaming (just of me though) and also has anger problems. So if we were ever to reconcile, we would prob. be going through that too!
I'm sorry I don't have any great advice to share like you always have GF! But you know you always have my thoughts & support!!! If anyone's marriage will work out successfully, I know it will be yours!!! Karen