I think I may have made a mistake. I text her that it was nice having her around and that the boys were really happy....no response since....LOL. I think she thinks I am trying to get her back. If she only knew. She is still thinking about her and herself only but I think she is making progress in that area.
She may think that you are still interested in trying or on the other hand she may see how important her participation is in the boys' life. You have made an amazing amount of progress on yourself and haven't come to your decision in haste. You seem to have come to peace with your decision and you are staying strong. Better things await you.
Thanks HIC, I feel like things are looking up. Not for my R but for my life and the life of my boys.
She even came by the night before last and just sat in the living room with the boys for hours, laughing and looking at pics. She stayed long enough to tuck them into bed because she wanted to. I can only see that as good. All the while she is talking about taking a job on the other side of the country. I feel bad for her. I know she is confused and hurt.
