I am telling you CW - you sound just like my W and me, except she was the one that is WAS. My hope is that during the DBing, I can get that confidence back and lose the insecurity. I am happy that you have glimmers of hope - so there is hope in Nor Cal! :-)
Just as an aside, I saw you do yoga, I have been to 3 of 4 classes at my club, I like them, but dang, it is tough. I have a real bad back and hoping that will stretch out some of those muscles!!!
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09