Perhaps you should talk to your L, and get the full maintenance owed you, and not this wishy-washy, what he thinks you should have cr*p!
I did try ringing her but she was unavailable and didn't ring back as requested. Might have to try again.
As for the handsome young man I'm like a love sick teenager at the moment (but that's just fantasy land ). If nothing else it is putting a permanent smile on my face!
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15