It's weird, I never in a million years would have thought that my H was in the least bit insecure. I'm the one who lack self-confidence! But I see it now, it's the emotional part.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09