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Wow, I think that is something to be hopeful about, but don't let him know it! Continue to be friendly yet aloof , treat him like you would your brother now.

Let him contact you... He seems to be doing that quite a bit lately.

Thanks for the advice H4H and Yoyo! H4H, it does feel good H seems to be reaching out more lately but I am going to try not to get too excited about it (I am a little \:\) ) b/c I think H is in MLC or something and is all over the place!!! He could be rude & distant again tomorrow so I will try to keep my feet on the ground.

I just counted and H emailed me 10 times today and he called me again so a total of 4 times. Some of the emails & calls were valid, but I would say at least half were just kind of chatty which he prob. hasn't done in 2 years or so!!! Plus, he came by at lunch today (we live half hour from his job) b/c he wanted to leave me $ and pick up something, but he was just here last night so that seems a little fishy, too.

I'm happy, but will try to stay aloof and keep LRTing. It's interesting b/c I've just been pretty good at it the last week or 2, and it does seem like H is way more communicating with me since I've been pulling back a little more (as recommended in DR). Weird!!! But don't worry Yoyo, I will repeat several times a day: Don't get your hopes up! Don't get your hopes up (or let H know how happy I am)! \:\) Karen

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