CW - thanks for the insights from your post. In many ways, I could be your husband... I have been very successful in my line of business and am very confident, but I am very insecure. This was a realization during counseling. I would take everything W would say and turn it around about how I was not able to support the family or this huge feeling of inaduecey. Even when I talk to her today, I feel like a 7th grader, I get all toungue tied. The funny part is that she thought she was the insecure one... Just thought may give you some insights to what your H may be going through.

Be well - hope the weather is nice in Nor Cal, on my home...

CBK


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09