If I could do it differently, here is what I'd have done then.
BTW, it's been 9 months since D-Day.
First, I never would have accepted this job and relocated our family when we were perfectly happy in our home town. But what cha gonna do?
Second, I would have exposed to the kids, MIL and OMW all at the same time. If that didn't end the affair I would have...
Third, Kicked her out, filed for D within a month of those exposures.
Fourth, I wouldn't have begged, cried, blah, blah, blah like I couldn't live without her. I now know I can and will if it comes to that.
Fifth, I would have confronted OM. WW said to me once that I should have confronted OM instead of being a chicken and contacting OMW. I didn't confront OM because it wouldn't have done any good and I'd have probably killed him. I mean, he didn't have a problem sleeping with my wife, why would he care if I confronted him?
Those are the major points. I could list a hundred more.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
