Trying to figure out WAW

[Flipper]

Thanks, Stillfighting!
I admit, I have calmed down since I posted the above. We do still love each other and are taking extra care to be kind during the settlement. I have since spoken to her and asked, "By the way, what'd you do with your ring?" She responded, "I carry it with me, in my purse." Hmmmm.

Well, the fringe benefit is that I have lost weight and look a heck of a lot better. My Attitude is WAY better. Now if I can only Luuuure my sweetie back! I will be kind, loving and patient. I am also working on making the conversation more about HER. Right now, as I understand it, she is really feeling unheard (got some valuable intel from her friend...who is very cool.)

Thanks again.

-Flipper