H is Having Affair after all - Part 2

[Jen_Jam]

Eve

I hope I'm not too late ... i wanted to put something down Monday but the internet has been broken (again).

If my H had written me this I would have responded

"H

thank you for your email. Sorry it's taken me a while to reply, it really struck a chord with me.

I do of course remember all the good times we had together, and I'll always look back on those fondly. I don't regret one second.

And it's such a shame we have got ourselves to the point we're at now. Life with you was good, and we let everything get in the way of that. I'm sorry too for the part I played in that. We let it all get away from us.

I hope in the future our lives will be happy. I certaintly am aiming for that and I wish it for you too. I have no desire to hurt you and I know that hurting anyone was never your intention either.

I'm sorry you feel the way you do about D2 and that you hurt over S1 being upset. I'm wishing for a happy future for ALL of us.

Take care

J"

What do you think? Use some/all of this if it fits for you.

I did read your draft respose ... full of anger, and it seems to me your H has reached out a little, and your angry reaction (while of course, nothing wrong with the anger you feel) may just push him away a little.