Farmgirl, I can understand your hesitation about taking an 11 trip with your H. He states that he is ready to work on things, but this is a recent change of heart, and his behavior doesn't inspire trust.
I don't think you can enjoy a trip with H at this time, so would support your decision to attend this trip solo. I don't think his verbally saying that he is ready to commit is enough. I don't think it would be honest, even if he said it. His behavior indicates he's not at that point.
You two are in the early stages of healing, so need to take it slowly. Long trips together are for a later date.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
