Yes, you could be right about the hug weirdness. It's going to be hard to remove myself from H between right now. The classes are every week. I did text him after he left that "I forgot to say thank you. It means a lot to me that he was there even though he was tired. Thank you" He said "ur welcome" and I left it there.

So, I think at this point, I'll just NOT initiate contact and have no expectations.

I'm not sure what I'm supposed to put on my happy list. Things that will make me happy, maybe?


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him