If your going to run at least pick a place you can communicate.
Protect yourself.
You do not have to be nice to your wife, however it is in your best interest not to be mean to her either.
Your children will always know who their father is. Have them look back at you with dignity and respect. Have them use you as the measuring stick, in a good way, for the men they date. Be honorable, firm, loving, compassionate.
OM is going to be on his best behavior with them, and throw money at them, its a trick that works in the short term. Buying their affection, do not fall for it. Be consistent. Be their dad.
The tough part to swallow. No its not you, but if they are having fun do not begrudge them it. Find ways to have fun with them on a budget.
Protect yourself from your wife's financial stupidity.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
