If I were a man, I would TOTALLY ask you to marry me. You are sooooo smart and such a wonderful mom. Your boys are so lucky. I hope your H can WAKE THE F UP!

I always thought if anyone could save their marriage on this forum, it would be you, because you always seem so rational, wise and together. I think your H is just mucked up and until he gets himself figured out, he won't realize what a little gift he has in you.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence