Originally Posted By: karen43

And btw, he now has emailed 3 times so far today (well one was on instructions to fix the toilet but I think we need a new one b/c it breaks every week)! But he's also called me 3 times today and the last time seemed to be for no reason at all that I could tell!!! Karen


Wow, I think that is something to be hopeful about, but don't let him know it! Continue to be friendly yet aloof , treat him like you would your brother now.

Let him contact you... He seems to be doing that quite a bit lately. I am no expert by any means but I am passing on info to you that I messed up on. It seems like any time my H would give me attention or hope I let him get too comfortable with the situation and I hate to admit it, but often pursued him. It seems anytime they think that you are in control it makes you more attractive.

You are doing a great job of keeping your emotions in check and taking care of yourself, the kids, and the house.

Remember he is just your "brother" now... Repeat after me....



Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon