RTL I know that message must have hurt considering how much effort you put into your R with D. You don't know if your W took it out of context or even sometimes when young children are in a situation they can't comprehend they make up things so it will make sense to them. D may be trying to find reasons for your W not being with you. I work in high school and even teenagers will say outrageous things about their parents while they are going through a divorce. They look for reasons, even if they are not true. But it doesn't stop them from wanting to be with both parents. Maybe it is better if you don't respond to your W on this. Defending yourself my make things worse. You know D is happy and comfortable when she is with you and always looks forward to seeing you again. That is reality. If your W wants to hang on every word D says then she will drive herself nuts!