i think infrequent snooping may work for me because otherwise i can trick myself into believing in his sweet talk and his blue innocent eyes and go against my best judgement. it keeps me grounded in the reality. i think i has been doing it once every 3 mo or so.
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1