Wow Jenny... that's interesting news about OW... sounds like your H is a train wreck right now.. but it sounds like your mutual friends are waking up now too.. they shouldn't avoid you.. you are a friend too.. so they shouldn't choose sides.
I hope you have a really good time with your friend tonight.
Positive thoughts that you get an offer super quick on your home.. and then get the house that fate seems to have in store for you!!! If your H wakes up.. he could always move in with you to the new place.. and start making new memories!