One thing my W and I did a long time ago was put in ICE into our cell phones - ICE stands for In Case of Emergency - that way, if something happens to either of us, officials know to go to the ICE number in your phone. You should at least ask your H to do this and you do this as well. It is a huge peace of mind. My mom was a dispatcher at a fire department and told us about this.
CBK
I did this also and it never stops cracking me up when WW calls me and my phone display says "ICE calling". Boy, if ever a more true statement was displayed, I don't know what it is.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.