Count down to separation - so we can "try".

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Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try". Abbey #1438553 05/07/08 04:15 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA M MichelleLT Member
MichelleLT Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 9,848 Nor Cal, USA	It is different living with someone vs living separate. Don't read too much into it. He NEEDS his space, he NEEDS time, and he NEEDS to miss you if you are ever going to make it work for the long-term. So, give him space and time and make him miss you. He is not used to living alone and managing the house all alone. I am sure he is feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and busy. Plus he doesn't have you around anymore - he's going through withdrawals. No matter how much he thought he wanted this S, he is now having to deal with the reality of it - and I bet it's not what he was expecting! Let him be independent, let him do it himself, and let him miss you. TIME IS ON YOUR SIDE. The trust issue is a very good question and one we all struggle with, but he CAN earn back your trust if that's what the two of you want. That's an issue for later really. Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2

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Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	04/20/08 07:02 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	04/20/08 08:19 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	04/20/08 09:27 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	04/21/08 03:39 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	klm	04/21/08 04:10 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	cat03	04/21/08 05:31 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	04/21/08 05:46 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	04/21/08 05:54 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	cat03	04/21/08 07:13 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	04/21/08 08:19 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	klm	04/21/08 08:27 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	04/21/08 10:12 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	04/30/08 06:31 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/02/08 12:22 AM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	05/02/08 04:32 AM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	CBK	05/02/08 04:39 AM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/02/08 04:15 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	05/05/08 07:42 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/06/08 10:53 AM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	05/06/08 02:23 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/07/08 11:20 AM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	05/07/08 04:15 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/08/08 11:06 AM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	05/08/08 04:35 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/08/08 10:36 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	05/08/08 10:40 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/11/08 01:13 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/14/08 11:16 AM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	TwinDad	05/14/08 12:40 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	girlfromipanema	05/14/08 01:23 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	05/14/08 03:18 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Starshyne	05/14/08 04:13 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	Abbey	05/15/08 03:57 PM
Re: Count down to separation - so we can "try".	MichelleLT	05/15/08 04:08 PM

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