How can I live with that??? WTH??? What am I going to do???????!!!!!!
Here's some ideas:
Start bringing guy friends around. Make friends with OW and tell her you and your H have sex all the time. When you know he's w/OW send him sexy text messages. Put all his stuff in a box, put it on the front porch and change the locks.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.