heavens, I could've almost signed my name at the bottom of your post jmw.
The important thing is that you have come to that liberating conclusion that you do not need him to be complete, it would've been nice to have the H's around, but yes, we do not need them to be happy.I thank God you have found true freedom and I hope all goes well with the D paperwork and it's over and done)))) my SA is almost done too.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.