Karen, Keep doing what you are doing, being upbeat and doing things for yourself. I can honestly say that I believe most of these changes are for your ownself and you have the true concept of PMA and GAL. I think he is seeing that. You don't have to point anything out, he is fully aware of it, but he is still so confused. I think the MLC pulls them in so many directions that they themselves don't even know what they want!!! Just continue what you are doing, no matter what happens you will come out on top!
Thanks Yoyo! I am going to continue no matter what (remind me of that if/when divorce papers get served please) , I feel so much better the way life is now, and I do think no matter what I will be fine! And btw, he now has emailed 3 times so far today (well one was on instructions to fix the toilet but I think we need a new one b/c it breaks every week)! But he's also called me 3 times today and the last time seemed to be for no reason at all that I could tell!!! Karen