Did see the comments before having a 'chat' which maybe I shouldn't of had but I feel with somethings you need to be clear so you know where you are. As usual with our chats, my W wouldn't take what I was saying and turned it round(or tried to) and I did start to get a bit angry as she questioned me wanting to spend time with my kids again !!! Sorry, she is either shot in the head about that or just winding me up as nothing else winds me up anymore but questioning me as a dad.
Anyway, so she never apologised for anything, which would have been so easy as wasn't as if I was asking for mush, but she'd rather try and argue and turn it into an argument. So it turned into a divorce chat again and I've noidea who she is speaking to (or TBH, I don't actually know the actual laws regarding our particular sitch) but she seems to think I will pretty much have to leave with nothing while she gets all and the kids !! Erm, no, I don't believe that to be true for 1 minute.
Anyway, there a mini update and rant to get it out there. I went out after chat to a friends house to get it off my chest as I just cannot fathom the mood swing from us being all polite and nice to that overnight. All I want is for us to be polite to each other (I am doing) so the kids aren't affected for the time being, then to re evaluate in a few months. It seems the being nasty is my W way of trying to justify what she is doing by getting a reaction out of me.
last day here today then of on a few days break. Things have calmed again but I can feel my W tension, but I aim to have a great time with the kids and make it a holiday to remember for them and me (and hopefully my W will join in and be receptive).
Really looking forward to it but also a bit nervous, but thankfully we will be pretty occupied all day everyday with fun stuff so no real time to get stressed.
