He's been gone, what, a total of two years in all? There is no more hurt to go around.

He just has to get thru this journey and it is no longer about another person being in the picture, it is all about him now.

I am past the hurt and the pain.

I read with a close friend lastnight the First Book of Peter in the Bible and it talks about this suffering as being good. It was inspiring.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19