The Detaching is hard. It is not that I am cold or distant. I am not mean or cross. I am trying to be aloof and indifferent. To act as is if what she says or does has very little meaning or impact on me. I am very close to feeling as if I do NOT WANT THIS PERSON IN MY LIFE no matter what. When I get there then I can get off the rollercoaster completely.
The Support Group was really helpful. It has: [list] An Opportunity to have a GAL activity for 2.5 Hrs/Wk. A formal Class on D Subjects (Depression. Loneliness, Dating, Etc). A Group Therapy Conversation with others in similar stiches. Prayer and scripture readings that help with the issues of divorce. I am looking forward to next week and recommend it. To bad you live so far away, you could join us on Monday.
