re sleep - they say that watching movie/computer may overstimulate nervous system for some people and make their sleep light. reading may be an option?
herbs - valerian root, any "sleepy" tea from the store
for me personally meditaion/visualization works best
re PTSD - EMDR is shown (statistically, in scientific studies) to be a successful therapeutic approach to PTSD (altho not ortodox). i heard a lot of personal accounts of its effectacy as well.
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1