Today is the day I remember too well.... when this whole JOURNEY started 2 years ago.
Ali, Two years! I'm coming up on the one-year anniversary of my bomb. I can't believe I've made it through this year. Last summer I was hoping/wishing that I could fast forward a year so it would all be over. But it's not over! However, I agree that we're all stronger, better people.
About your H and the whatever he says "you're not doing." You have no recollection of the conservation he had with you? If it makes you feel better, I try to have the same kind of talks with my H -- ask him what he wants, what I could do better (as far as intimacy) and he hardly ever gives me straight answers. I swear if he comes back one day and complains that I never do this or that I'm going to bop him in the head!
It sounds like you two are doing pretty good together, so maybe he just woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Then again, he can't expect you to read his mind!
