I can't sleep tonight after the assessment issue. I am really questioning the whole DB/DR thing. The negative tension and emotions are removed from the sitch. No R/D talks. Alot of coparenting and friendship talks. My W is more open and in better moods each day..... Why shouldn't she be? I have been reduced to a paycheck who sleeps on the couch, is a live in babysitter and funds her social life. Every day she gets closer to the D (and happiness). I am wondering if the DB techniques are working or she is just delighted that she is in control and getting what she wants. Can anyone tell the difference? I will keep up the fight (especially to detach) but I beleive that she is enjoying this far to much to be having internal conflict.
