Peace, Thanks for your vote of confidence. I dont think H would be too open to the idea of C or MC. It's been brought up before a few times and he never liked the idea of it. I think he would feel very awkward & wouldnt really open up to a Counselor.
My H text me after our walk tonight at the end of my bowling night and said "would you be interested in watching a movie after if your not too tired".
I text back "I'll let you know when i get home in about 45 min".
H text : " ok, no worries, I Love you!".
So when I got home I called him up and said "its kindof late to watch a movie but if you want to come over and chat - I'll be up till 11:00. He said Cool I'l be right over.
He came over for an hour and we sat on the couch and talked. Mostly all just small talk & playing with the dog. And I showed him my painting - He loved it! I told him that my Friend mark and I do art night on mondays and then we watch a season series HBO show that I netflix. My H said he was envious. He gave me a few small kisses.
All of a sudden while we were talking about his work & recent jobs I happen to look down at his left hand & noticed that: HE PUT HIS WEDDING RING BACK ON - the first time with out any persuasion from me in like about 2 &1/2yrs. HOLY COW!!!!!!!!!!! MY HEART SKIPPED LIKE A THOUSAND BEATS AND MY SMILE WAS FROM EAR TO EAR FOR LIKE A MINUTE STRAIGHT. I regained my composure and didnt say a word to him that I had noticed. He left at 11:00 as he said, and on his way out I walked him to the door and I gave him a good kiss good bye and we plan on walking the dog or going bowling tommorow around 4.
WOW - I hope this is not a dream. I hope he doesnt change his mind ever again. I want to rebuild this - I hope we can. TIPPER
