Finding DB late in the game #4

[cw68]

Hi CW. You did so well! I can't imagine having such a convo and NOT crying.

Jen

It just showed me that I am detaching. Wow. It's happening even though a lot of me doesn't think it makes sense.

I was out tonight with another Mom whose children are in my children's classes. Last month I found out her husband left her in July 2007. Their situation was sooo similar to ours. He is now just coming back, slowly moving back into their house. Interestingly, her actions follow the DB method, though she's hadn't heard of it. She said that once they know, and see, you OK without them you become more attractive. Once you take the family dynamics away from them, they want to be a part of it. All the stuff most of us talk about here. So it's not just a book-scam, it's real life stuff. Gave me a little more hope. We'll see.