40 isn't old. CFB looks old! Plus the 10 year age difference between them stands out a lot more when she looks old...\
J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out